The Art of Touch: A Tantric Massage Program For Couples
Elevate your intimacy from routine to transcendent
A hands-on, in person, Toronto based training
Touch is our first language
Yet many couples struggle with expressing themselves through touch
Maybe it's gone quiet, replaced by the same well-worn routine. Maybe it's there, but rushed, goal-oriented, more performance than presence — a means to an end rather than an end in itself. Maybe touching your partner now comes with a flicker of anxiety instead of ease. None of this means something is wrong with your relationship. It means touch has become another task on the list — and it's time to learn it again, together, as a practice rather than a performance.
It should feel easy, fulfilling, and pleasurable
Experience anxiety around pleasing your partner
Love each other but touch has become routine
Want to explore deeper intimacy but don’t know where to start
Sense that more is possible, but can’t quite articulate what that is
You’re not alone if you
The Art Of TouchA Tantric Massage Program for Couples
In this hybrid virtual and in-person training, you’ll develop a deeper understanding of Tantra, and how to use touch as a pathway for intimacy and bliss.
Two 75-minute virtual sessions will introduce you to the core concepts of Tantra and the cultivation of sexual energy. Together as a couple, you’ll receive guided meditations, breathwork and touch-based practices to enrich your connection and cultivate more depth and intentionality in your touch.
Your virtual sessions are followed by a full day, in-person intensive with Monika where you’ll develop the hands-on skills to approach your partner’s body with presence and confidence.
The journey concludes with a final 45-minute integration call to address any questions or challenges that might have come up in your practice, and to help you continue on your journey with ease.
What You’ll Learn
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This initial session will introduce you to Tantra as a pathway to connecting with the body. You’ll cultivate the skill of feeling through the body using breathwork and meditation practices. You’ll learn about pleasure and desire as pathways to higher states of consciousness, and how to utilize current nervous system science to foster connection and ease between your bodies. Lastly, you’ll learn about polarity (the play between opposite energies) and how to use polarity intentionally when giving and receiving.
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In our second session, we’ll dive into genital anatomy, pleasure pathways, and understanding how energy moves in the body. We’ll cover different types of orgasms, their energetic and neural pathways, and how to use breath and awareness to cultivate them. We’ll focus on orgasm as more of a state rather than a final destination, something to live in as a source of day to day bliss.
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We’ll meet in person for 2× 3h sessions, each of which will be dedicated to one person giving, the other receiving.
We’ll begin with a detailed pleasure mapping session for the receiver, followed by a guided, hands-on Tantric massage practice.
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Following our in-person session, we’ll book an integration call in about a week or two.
On this 45-minute zoom call, you’ll have the opportunity to address any questions that have come up and share how you’ve been integrating the practices into your day to day lives.
Why Learn Tantric Massage as a Couple?
Develop a deeper understanding of your partner’s body
Everyone’s pathway to pleasure is unique, and learning Tantric massage helps you cultivate more attunement in your hands and nuance in your touch. Rather than touch that feels hollow and prescriptive, you’ll learn to follow your partner’s cues in real time.
Bring more intentionality into your intimacy
When touch becomes ritual, it moves from the realm of habit into something more sacred. Tantric massage offers you a structured practice in which you can slow down, stay present, and choose loving connection moment to moment.
Explore orgasm as a state rather than a goal
Treating orgasm as a goal takes you out of the present moment. Tantric massage teaches you to drop into embodied bliss in each and every moment, taking orgasm from a short burst to a prolonged state that continues to flow in waves.
Become the most skilled lover you can be
Being a great lover hinges on being present, embodied and intuitive. Only after these skills are met can we begin to layer on techniques. Tantric massage teaches you body awareness, attunement and touch skills so you can show up as your most anchored and confident self.
About Monica
Monica is a Sacred Sexuality and Embodiment Coach, with over a decade of experience working in private practice with individuals and couples.
She holds certifications in Somatic Sex Education, Sexological Bodywork, Tantra Yoga, Integrative Psychotherapy, and Breathwork.
She teaches regularly at Oasis Aqualounge’s Sex School, has appeared on Toronto’s CityLine, the Toronto Tantra Festival, and has published several pieces for Brainz Magazine.
As a facilitator, she provides a grounded and trauma-informed space where clients can shed their fears and inhibitions and explore experiences that lead toward their growth and actualizing their full erotic potential.
Invest in your intimacy.
What’s included in your package:
2× 75 minute zoom sessions
2× 3h private, in-person, hands-on classes
1× 45 minute integration call
Your total investment: $2,500 CAD
Financing available
Frequently Asked Questions
What are the in person sessions like?
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These are highly experiential sessions that are clothing optional for clients. You’ll be guided through providing a full body massage for one another, as well as a lengthy yoni or lingam massage.
As a sexological bodyworker, I’m trained in full body touch and can provide optional hands on guidance. All touch is consent based and trauma aware.
I remain fully clothes and solely in a facilitator role, using appropriate hygiene protocols such as gloves for any genital work.
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What’s your space like?
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How do I get started?
My Toronto studio is located in a fully private lower level, with a private entrance. The vibe is dark, sensual and intimate with lots of fabrics and candles. You’ll have a choice of working on a mattress or massage table.
For European clients, please inquire about my availability in Budapest.
What’s Your experience with Queer Couples?
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Being queer myself, I’ve always understood Tantra through a queer lens. All genders, pairings and relationship styles are welcome.
Do you offer financing?
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Yes. Payments can be divided into monthly instalments with a 25% deposit.
If you’re interested in working together, please book a Discovery Call where we can get to know one another, discuss your intentions as a couple and see if we’re a good fit.
Please note, I only work with couples who have a strong foundation of trust and communication. If your relationship is in crisis, I recommend pursing couples therapy first.
Client Reviews
“These sessions have been magical experiences. Our sessions with Monica gave us the time and space needed to truly relax, to slow our lives and our minds, to really appreciate each other in a kind, positive and safe place”
— Anonymous“It was easy to feel comfortable with Monica. We immediately felt relaxed and open talking to her during our first Zoom meeting. At the end of the experience we were both surprised at how comfortable we had felt during the whole experience and we credit it to Monica’s grace, openness and professionalism.
We are absolutely having more sex for starters! Beyond that - we are able to experience each other intimately more often and more easily. This has made our time together as a couple more connected and more in sync.”
— N + J “My partner and I both come from religious backgrounds (Muslim and Christian) and so our relationship to sex is a very touchy one. This was a very therapeutic experience that allowed me to release so much tension and pain my yoni was holding onto. My partner and I left the workshop feeling so connected. Our sexual experience together has forever changed for the better and its all thanks to Monica. She is a skilled facilitator with so much knowledge and care. We will be returning again in the future! Thank you so much Monica!”
— M + STeach your hands to speak the language of your heart
Let your touch become a vehicle for pleasure, connection and ecstatic joy.
Invest in skill that will grow with you continue giving back through the course of your relationship.
Three virtual sessions, one full day in person, and a lifetime of intimacy that keeps unfolding long after the sessions.
