Tantric Massage
A full-body journey into breath, sensation, and the sacred union of sex and spirit.
What is Tantric Massage?
Tantric massage weaves sensual touch with breath and intention, inviting your body into a slow, expansive state where pleasure becomes a doorway to the transcendent.
It is a space where you don’t need to perform or reciprocate. Only be present and receive.
Tantric Massage for Individuals
A solo journey into your own erotic and energetic landscape — open to all genders.
What To Expect
We begin with a brief check-in to hold your intentions for the session. From there, you're welcomed into a candlelit, meditative space, where breathwork and presence open the door to a slow, full-body sensory journey — music, scent, texture, and touch, woven together to help you drop fully into your body.
There is no goal of arousal or climax. Should they arise, they're welcome — but the priority is always presence, not performance.
We close with quiet integration time, allowing the experience to settle, followed by space to reflect and share.
Tantric Massage and Trauma Healing
For many, tantric massage becomes part of a broader healing journey, offering a container for reclaiming pleasure and releasing what the body has held onto, always led by consent and your pace.
However, it is an advanced practice and not an appropriate starting point for many. If you are on your sexual awakening journey and still experiencing challenges with nervous system regulation, shame, and dissociation, consider Somatic Sexuality Coaching to start.
No Goal
Arousal and orgasm are welcome if they arise — but they are never the point. The point is staying present, and letting your body respond however it wishes to.
THe sacred Spot
Internal touch (prostate or G-spot) is always optional, and always your choice. In Tantric tradition, this point is considered a gateway to profound release, accessible only when, and if, you're ready.
Etiquette
As a certified Sexological Bodyworker, I hold a container of one-way touch: I remain fully clothed throughout, acting solely as your facilitator. This is your space to receive, without reciprocation or distraction.
Four Handed Massage
Curious to experience the sensation of receiving from two skilled practitioners simultaneously? Inquire about four-handed massage sessions with my colleague, Adam.
Tantric Massage for Couples
Whether as a gift to your partner, or a shared experience together, sessions can be tailored to what you're both curious to explore.
Witness Your Partner Receiving
Gift your partner a full Tantric massage experience, while you hold space beside them, present and attentive. A quiet, intimate way to witness one another's pleasure.
Four Handed Massage
Imagine the sensation of being touched simultaneously by your partner alongside a skilled practitioner, while you simply relax and receive. In this style of session, Monica and the giving partner will intuitively co-create a sensual experience for the receiver.
Pricing
Individual Sessions
Tantric Massage — 90 minutes — $350 + HST
Four Handed Massage (with Adam) — 90 minutes — $700 + HST
Couples Sessions
Witnessing — 2h — $450 + HST
Four Handed Massage (with partner) — 2h — $450 + HST
Looking to go deeper?
For couples wanting a full immersive experience beyond a single session, explore our private couples retreats: custom, multi-day journeys into Tantric connection and sacred sexuality.
Or check out The Art of Touch: A Tantric Massage Program for Couples, a hybrid virtual and in-person program where you can learn to give tantric massage.
About Monica
Monica holds certifications as a Sexological Bodyworker and Somatic Sex Educator, and has completed numerous other trainings in psychotherapy, breathwork, yoga, Tantra, kink/BDSM, and Taoist sexuality. She has studied worldwide with prominent teachers including Joseph Kramer, Mantak Chia, Cleo Dubois and Eve Minax. She has been featured on CityLine, Soulspace podcast, and teaches regularly at Oasis Aqualounge’s Sex School Series.
Monica is known for creating a warm and open environment where clients can dive into the most difficult topics surrounding their sexuality. She provides a unique container where clients can explore embodied coaching as well as receive full body touch in a safe and trauma informed environment. She specializes in creating sacred embodiment practices, and helping clients understand and communicate their needs and boundaries.
Monica’s mission is to help build a world where sexuality is no longer taboo, and where we can live in reverence for all of life because we are connected to the sacred within.
About Adam
I am a Sex Somatic Educator-in-Training, currently enrolled at the Institute for the Study of Sex Somatic Education, where I am deepening my understanding of embodiment, intimacy, and healing. My passion lies in helping individuals and couples reconnect with their bodies, explore their desires, and cultivate deeper intimacy through somatic awareness, breathwork, mindful touch, and trauma-informed care.
I believe sexuality is a gateway to self-discovery, and my approach is rooted in curiosity, playfulness, and respect. Whether you’re navigating challenges like disconnection, low libido, or past trauma, or simply seeking to embrace more pleasure, I offer practical tools and embodied experiences to support your journey.
In my work, I also focus on teaching individuals how to identify and set healthy boundaries in their relationships, helping them develop a sense of empowerment and clarity in expressing their needs and desires.
When I’m not immersed in my work, I enjoy activities like CrossFit, tennis, hockey, pickleball, and gaming with friends. I also love going on long road trips and indulging in my passion for food. My insatiable curiosity drives me to continually learn and grow, and I have a deep interest in all things science.
